Coffee Please

Tabbetha tells me I am difficult to shop for at Christmastime.  She is not into comic books like I am, so she does not know what I have, do not have, and what trades I would actually like to have.  Also, I am picky about my music and movies.  There are a lot of movies I think are great – but only for a one time view.  I do not want the waste of space for the DVD for a one time delight.  When it comes to music, my taste for a particular song does not translate into liking the music of the artist.  So, purchasing an entire album may be nothing more than a waste of money and time.  Pretty much, she can bank on coffee beans and coffee mugs.  However, making a big move to Texas is not the best time to add to my mug collection.

One thing I have begged her to do is make a donation to www.worldvisiongifts.org

If she does that remains to be seen.  Poor Tabbetha, she had to marry some oddball man.

I have heard people talk about ‘nutty, hippie’ relatives that suggest these kinds of corny gift ideas.   For some reason, a piece of paper informing a loved one that someone was helped in their name is not that satisfying at the holidays – even if it is wrapped with a nice bow!

Is the gift giving always about the other person, or is it partially about pride?  Can we be so afraid of what others might think that we buy ‘impressive’ gifts to avoid talk behind out back?  I mean, how many of us want to be known as the relative that nobody wants drawing their name for a gift exchange?  I can understand and appreciate that.  I would be hurt by that kind of talk.

But, I am thrilled by the life money can provide as opposed as a present that may collect dust until the next big yard sale.

I do not want to come off holier than thou or some kind of saint.  I am materialistic.  I love my Directv and TiVo, iphone, laptop, coffee, and comics.  I am sure there are a lot of things that could be bought that would consume more of my time in enjoyment.  However, knowing what money can provide for entire families through a reputable organization…………….well, I really, really want them to have it. 

If you are looking to give gifts that are a little different, please check out www.worldvisiongifts.org

You may be amazed by what how much your money can actually do for others.  Make sure to check out the great links they have on the left side of the page.

Also, www.thehondurasproject.org is another great site featuring a work doing a lot of good.